re: Are People, Who Complain About Everything Miserable Or Are They Happy

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the people who have to listen to it all are the miserable ones.

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I will say it is miserable having to listen to them, but that doesn't mean it makes someone miserable.

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People who complain about everything are not miserable because they get everything off their chest

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The things they complain about are things that shouldn't be on their chest in the first place. Not everything in life will go exactly the way you expect it and just because YOU expect it, doesn't mean that's how it should be or what other people expect, so there are things that shouldn't even been an issue.. That's the people I am referring to.

If I go to a restaurant and it is busy, but I still receive good service... but there was one time the serve came check on me and she appeared to be somewhat in a hurry and didn't smile.. I am not going to let that one, small, insignificant detail impact my overall experience, however; there are people who will go tell everyone they are never going back to that place because the last time they went the server "was rude", etc, etc.. That's what I am referring to.. Allowing insignificant details ruin the whole experience.