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re: Advice needed--worried about my gf
Posted on 2/10/15 at 3:05 am to TbirdSpur2010
Posted on 2/10/15 at 3:05 am to TbirdSpur2010
ah well, I was looking for a gift for the s.o. for valentines day. thanks anyway 
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Posted on 2/10/15 at 3:07 am to Brendoni
I'm sure there's some bruhs over in Lawton or sumn that'll hook y'all up 
Posted on 2/10/15 at 3:08 am to TbirdSpur2010
just need a pic man, god damn. not the real deal. tha frick you thinking man.
This post was edited on 2/10/15 at 3:09 am
Posted on 2/10/15 at 3:17 am to Brendoni
You guys are getting off topic on this here OT thread. Did you know sex is banned on the ISS? No shite, no sex on the space station. I'm going to make some waffles now.
Posted on 2/10/15 at 3:25 am to ALWho
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Did you know sex is banned on the ISS? No shite, no sex on the space station.
good to know. back on the subject, why did the guy get so butt hurt? some of us were trying to be serious, but spur had to ruin the thing. oh well, I guess he didn't want our (my) advice anyway.
Posted on 2/10/15 at 3:29 am to Brendoni
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some of us were trying to be serious, but spur had to ruin the thing.
I was the first one itt giving him support
What are you irked about, man?
This post was edited on 2/10/15 at 3:30 am
Posted on 2/10/15 at 3:31 am to TbirdSpur2010
you weren't being serious, I could tell by your tone, and so could he, that's why he bailed. he was like....
Posted on 2/10/15 at 3:33 am to Brendoni
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you weren't being serious
I was in my first and third posts. Notice I wasn't the one who started the joking, either
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I could tell by your tone
Nah, you assumed incorrectly
I never frick around with people who bring up suicide. Keep your shirt on. Way too early in the day for this nonsense
This post was edited on 2/10/15 at 3:35 am
Posted on 2/10/15 at 3:37 am to Brendoni
I got on after he deleted the OP. If the situation was so serious he shouldn't be on here looking for everyone or anyone to give sound advice.From what I read, the OP was frustrated when he posted. He saw responses that weren't humorous to him and got pissed. It may very well be a disparate need for help.
Posted on 2/10/15 at 3:38 am to TbirdSpur2010
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I never frick around with people who bring up suicide.
it's no joke. a guy I used to work with, decided to take his own life about 5 years ago. It was horrible, and to this day, I still can't believe he did it.
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Keep your shirt on. Way too early in the day for this nonsense
I was just messing with you, my bad man
Posted on 2/10/15 at 3:43 am to Brendoni
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it's no joke. a guy I used to work with, decided to take his own life about 5 years ago. It was horrible, and to this day, I still can't believe he did it.
Yeah we lost a good dude in my shop here less than a month ago to suicide. Still can't believe he's gone--shite hurts to talk about still for me and a lot of folks here. Even if it's a troll, I'll err on the side of caution when it comes to that subject.
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I was just messing with you, my bad man
It's all good
Posted on 2/10/15 at 3:47 am to TbirdSpur2010
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Yeah we lost a good dude in my shop here less than a month ago to suicide. Still can't believe he's gone--shite hurts to talk about still for me and a lot of folks here. Even if it's a troll, I'll err on the side of caution when it comes to that subject.
this guy was on of those people who everyone liked. he had a lot going for him, so no one ever saw it coming. it was a bad deal, all around.
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It's all good
i feel bad now
Posted on 2/10/15 at 3:52 am to ALWho
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If the situation was so serious he shouldn't be on here looking for everyone or anyone to give sound advice
to be fair, sometimes it's easier for people to ask "strangers" for help, rather than people they know. this could have been a troll thread, but you never know.
Posted on 2/10/15 at 3:53 am to Brendoni
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this guy was on of those people who everyone liked. he had a lot going for him, so no one ever saw it coming. it was a bad deal, all around.
Yeah, those are the ones that are the hardest to accept. This guy was the same: everybody loved to talk to him, and for me, personally, he was the kind of gym rat that inspired me to push harder in my personal fitness just because of how hard he'd go when I'd see him at the gym. Not really a fan of my current work environment, but always looked forward to talking to him whenever I ran into him.
Just very sad--makes you wish you could have done more or let 'em know straight up that you valued their presence, you know?
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i feel bad now
Nah, no need for that--it's a touchy subject and I'd probably have done the same if I thought someone was trying to make light of it
To OP: I'll reiterate--seek real help for your girl if you were being honest. Nothing to play around with, and I wish you and her all the best.
Posted on 2/10/15 at 3:58 am to TbirdSpur2010
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To OP: I'll reiterate--seek real help for your girl if you were being honest. Nothing to play around with, and I wish you and her all the best.
all joking aside, THIS. the bad thing is, if she wrote about it, without telling anyone, she's probably more likely to just do it. i know that sounds harsh, but if she isn't seeking help, and is writing about it in a diary/journal then she needs help, sooner rather than later. she may get mad at you, for going through her stuff, but it's worth it, if it saves her life, imo.
Posted on 2/10/15 at 4:05 am to Brendoni
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she may get mad at you, for going through her stuff, but it's worth it, if it saves her life, imo.
Yup, you can deal with her being pissed at you later.
As long as she's around to be pissed at you in the first place, it'll be a blessing.
Posted on 2/10/15 at 4:37 am to TbirdSpur2010
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To OP: I'll reiterate--seek real help for your girl if you were being honest. Nothing to play around with, and I wish you and her all the best.
I've seen enough of your posts to know you're a good dude. I just didn't thinking this was one of those times to be making light of possible suicidal ideations. My a-hole comments were directly mostly at the other losers.
To the dude who said she probably left the journal out for me to find, she didn't. I caught her writing in a little book and she hid it and didn't think i saw. I didn't say anything. After realizing how depressed she'd been about the job I went looking for it and found it hidden.
And for her seeking help, she was in therapy and saw a shrink for over 5 yrs. I just wanted to see if i could get some advice on a home based business she could do to make money since that seemed to be what was bothering her the most at present. Her anxiety isn't bad as long as she doesn't have to interact with a lot of people.That's why I thought a home job or online business could be a good thing for her. I will obviously discuss the suicidal thouhts with her even if it upsets her that I read her journal. But the longer she goes without some type of job, the more I'll worry.
That's the followup response for you decent people.the rest of you can now continue to be assholes and make jokes
You do it so well.
Posted on 2/10/15 at 5:39 am to Grouchy Old Bastard
So..........no pics then I guess?
Posted on 2/10/15 at 7:22 am to Grouchy Old Bastard
If you find yourself stressing over someone you have no legal or financial obligation to, remove that stress from your life.
Posted on 2/10/15 at 7:43 am to Brendoni
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since this thread is already ruined, are you going to post pics, of said bbc?
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