re: A man is incomplete until he is married

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I'm going through it. My wife of 10 years doesn't love me anymore. We have 2 young kids. My 9yr daughter doesn't like her mother because she spends all of her time on her cell phone. My son is laid back but since he is only 5 he occupies his time with his iPad or games. I work away and missed alot of time with them but I provided for all of them and still do. Wife won't speak to me at all. My kids are suffering and that's what hurts me the most. Their mother is more interested in how she can get a stranger's dick than her own kids. She recently got rejected at the bar the last time I was home. I moved to my parents house 3 hours away and it's been a struggle. I only get my kids 2 weekends every other month. I don't know what to expect with the divorce but she doesn't have access to my money anymore. She wanted to go through a mediator but maybe now she will lawyer up I don't know. I have witnesses to prove that she neglects my children. I really don't want to go to war though. It sucks because I can't help my children at work. I'm not looking for another woman, I just want my kids to be happy and with her they aren't. I will figure it out.

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Been there done that and man it sucks! It sounds like you need a good lawyer, and let the war begin. The quicker the war gets started the quicker it can end and you can get your kids into a better situation than they currently are. It's not an easy fight, and it's not one that we want to take on, but it is a necessary fight, because your kids are the most important thing.

Good Luck!!