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re: Interested to hear your story if you found out your partner cheats with multiple people
Posted on 7/1/21 at 5:00 pm to BusinessKnight
Posted on 7/1/21 at 5:00 pm to BusinessKnight
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Yes, I need to figure out why I am insecure to the point that I became a doormat. It was probably not long enough after my divorce to be in a relationship.
When you’re in shitty relationships where you’re not valued, you develop negative core beliefs about yourself that you don’t deserve better than what you have. And after awhile, they stick. It happens to the best of folks.
I’d suggest taking some time to yourself to really evaluate what you want and to really work on yourself. Particularly your self-esteem. Might be worth seeing a therapist to work on that so you don’t settle into old patterns.
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Posted on 7/1/21 at 5:07 pm to BluegrassBelle
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When you’re in shitty relationships where you’re not valued, you develop negative core beliefs about yourself that you don’t deserve better than what you have. And after awhile, they stick. It happens to the best of folks. I’d suggest taking some time to yourself to really evaluate what you want and to really work on yourself. Particularly your self-esteem. Might be worth seeing a therapist to work on that so you don’t settle into old patterns.
This is valuable insight. Thank you.
This post was edited on 7/1/21 at 5:08 pm
Posted on 7/1/21 at 5:08 pm to BluegrassBelle
Please break up with her, it win win. In two months you will officially be her ex.
And you know already she fricks her exs.
And you know already she fricks her exs.
Posted on 7/1/21 at 7:08 pm to BluegrassBelle
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When you’re in shitty relationships where you’re not valued, you develop negative core beliefs about yourself that you don’t deserve better than what you have. And after awhile, they stick. It happens to the best of folks. I’d suggest taking some time to yourself to really evaluate what you want and to really work on yourself. Particularly your self-esteem. Might be worth seeing a therapist to work on that so you don’t settle into old patterns.
+1 Also, OP you may want to read a book called Attached. May explain a lot about why this happened. I read it years ago and it set me on a good path for the better.
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