re: Interested to hear your story if you found out your partner cheats with multiple people

I didn’t read all the responses so I don’t know if it’s been said. You have low self-respect and self-esteem. Work on you. The very first notion of infidelity should have been addressed and seen to fruition…especially if y’all aren’t married. I, too, am in my late 40’s and view your response to her actions immature. When in doubt, kick her out. Otherwise, you’ll build up animosity and any real love you had will decay.