re: Gather round all you baws thinking about getting married

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Get married, but make sure you are committing to the right one. I’m not saying it is easy and that people don’t change, but don’t settle.

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that sounds great. solid advice.

unfortunately no one can predict the future. people change and its mostly for selfish reasons and they don't even know they are doing it.

i married my best friend. it was great. for a while. then it went south. no amount of counseling made a difference. no amount of self-introspective made a difference, she thought she was not in the wrong. the emotional disconnect happened. the physical followed.

sex felt like a forced task. "hurry up" - if i ever those those freaking two words again from another woman i am going to flip my shite.