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re: Dating question for the ladies?
Posted on 9/14/20 at 10:04 pm to RICHIE APRILE
Posted on 9/14/20 at 10:04 pm to RICHIE APRILE
A girl rejecting you can be a test. She wants to see how you react. If you are a bitch about it then you failed the test. If you give no fricks that she rejected you, you have passed the test.
It's not always like this, she will reject guys she has no interest in as well and in that case there is nothing you can do. But sometimes she rejects guys she is unsure about to test them. Women are different then men in that they are not immediately attracted based on visual cues like guys are. Guys can take one look at a woman for 1 second and know if they are attracted. Women's attraction takes a lot longer to develop so they do things like test guys they are trying to feel out and rejection is one of those ways to do it.
It's not always like this, she will reject guys she has no interest in as well and in that case there is nothing you can do. But sometimes she rejects guys she is unsure about to test them. Women are different then men in that they are not immediately attracted based on visual cues like guys are. Guys can take one look at a woman for 1 second and know if they are attracted. Women's attraction takes a lot longer to develop so they do things like test guys they are trying to feel out and rejection is one of those ways to do it.
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Posted on 9/14/20 at 11:06 pm to RICHIE APRILE
If a girl is testing you by rejecting you, she’s playing games.
Save yourself and move on.
Also, I’ve never heard of this tactic.
Save yourself and move on.
Also, I’ve never heard of this tactic.
Posted on 9/14/20 at 11:57 pm to RICHIE APRILE
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Women are different then men in that they are not immediately attracted based on visual cues like guys are. Guys can take one look at a woman for 1 second and know if they are attracted. Women's attraction takes a lot longer to develop so they do things like test guys they are trying to feel out and rejection is one of those ways to do it.
I think the majority of women know within short order whether or not they would sleep with you. Now having said that and I think this applies to both men and women after they get to know you better their opinions may change. But again I think today’s women aren’t a lot different than men.
OP I think the correct answer is move on. If there is a way to keep things in the friend zone maybe she will see something in you that she overlooked. I honestly would need more details such as how long have you known this girl, etc. Getting turned down by someone you know well is different than getting turned down by some woman you just met.
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