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re: Life changes quick
Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:12 pm to Will Cover
Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:12 pm to Will Cover
Will, I literally have no clue what I wanna do. Some days I’m like frick that bitch and then there are days that I feel like I would give it another very cautious shot with her. I haven’t forgiven what she did but I’m at peace with it because I knew early on and just needed to confirm it. The woman that I’ve been dealing with since June 7th is a completely different person than she was in let’s say just March. Can’t lie up until last Tuesday I’ve actually remained pretty calm in dealing with her, normally our phone conversations end up in her crying accusing me of using the kids against her, I haven’t said a bad word about the woman in front of them but I did tell my oldest 2 about the affair
Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:17 pm to TigerMatt225
The right moves so far.... when my first wife thought it was best to leave, she didn’t say a word and hid my two kids away from me for over a year...... talk about a crushing blow. Not really about her leaving but you don’t hide the kids away from their father for over a year...... that’s just plain hatred for the kids. She is and always will be a total loser in life.
Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:18 pm to TigerMatt225
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, I haven’t said a bad word about the woman in front of them but I did tell my oldest 2 about the affair
Man that's tough. I grew up in a broken home. Don't bad mouth your kids' mother in front of them, even if she did you wrong. They'll understand who did what over time.
That's a tough spot to be in for sure. I don't envy you but wish you the best.
Posted on 7/5/20 at 12:29 pm to TigerMatt225
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I haven’t forgiven what she did but I’m at peace with it
You need to forgive her(not forget it)..... not for her but for yourself.
You don't necessarily have to even tell her you forgive her. But you need to forgive her in your heart. So that you can truly move on and live your best life. Holding on to the anger and bitterness over their betrayal will only weigh you down more in the long run.
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