re: Granting dying wishes vs going against a parents wishes.

I inadvertently walked in on a conversation my MIL was having with her sister and my sister-in-law. My MIL was nearly in tears explaining how disappointed she was that my kids weren't being raised in a religious home or baptized. It wasn't that she wanted them to find salvation or anything, it was "I'll never get to see them in heaven".

I turned right back around and left the room without saying a word. I'm not going to be guilt-tripped by my MIL to indoctrinate my children based on her own personal beliefs.