re: Granting dying wishes vs going against a parents wishes.

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Baptizing them now doesn't prevent them independently making a decision later in life on what religious route they would like to take

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Not baptising them doesn't prevent them from being religious later in life.

The point is OP and his wife made a decision on how they want to raise their child. Grandma wants them to change it to make her happy for her last 14 days on Earth (again no offense, OP). That's selfish af.