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Sincere Apology. Long overdue

Posted on 2/4/20 at 12:45 am
Posted by CoachJG45
Member since Oct 2017
639 posts
Posted on 2/4/20 at 12:45 am
Good Evening,

Initially I posted this in response to getting called a handler among other things in the thread about Billy E and Josh having some sort of beef. During this thread I was brought up over the Quad Brown thread.

At the request of another poster, I am starting a new thread with an apology as well As some facts on how things went down.

As a father, coach, and Tiger fan, I owe this to you guys and deserve any criticism coming my way that hasn’t already. I love LSU. And I let that love and passion boil over into a critical error in judgement. I am truly sorry for the post I made. But I am most sorry I lied about It. It was wrong.

But that doesn’t make me a handler or a bad person. It made me human and my fandom clouded my professionalism. Below are some facts which I posted in the other thread. Geaux Tigers and God Bless.


Fact 1
I’m not a handler nor have I ever been compensated or attempted to be compensated or receive any improper benefit for assisting Quad. Or anyone else for that matter.

Fact 2
Quad had zero offers when his father asked me to start helping him. He asked. I helped. He ended up getting 12 offers including a few P5 offers. He is now on a full scholarship at Georgia State and is expected to be the starter as a true Sophomore this coming season. Did it work out at LSU? Nope. Did Quad ultimately get a full scholarship to play D1 FBS ball? Yup.

Fact 3
As a lifelong fan of LSU, I absolutely tried to get him an offer at LSU, especially when he communicated to me that LSU is where he wanted to be. I brought him to camp and multiple visits on my dime (per the invitation from a staff member, and both myself and Quad were told things by 2 separate staff members that did not happen. (Both staff members are no longer at LSU.) This Camp was one of 13 camps that I took Quad and several other kids, and I sponsored them to do so.

Fact 4
I was instructed by Coach Hawkins to get Jayson Jones on campus. I did not hold Jayson out to get Quad an offer.

Fact 5
Bc I have been a lifelong LSU fan, I let my emotion cloud my judgement when things didn’t work out for Quad, knowing how bad he wanted to be at LSU. For that I raise my hand and take responsibility for letting my emotions get in the way of my better judgement. I’m sure some of you have made a mistake before. Maybe. Maybe not.

What I do know is that I lied about the regrettable post I made here, and I take full responsibility for it. It was unbecoming, and I should have been honest about it. I reacted in an unprofessional and frankly I’m most disappointed that I lied about the post.

That said, the content of the post was information passed along to me, and I got pissed and out of character when I did that.

For that I do owe you guys an apology, Bc it clouded a ton of hard work and completely derailed that thread.

So...sorry guys....but Geaux Tigers
Posted by rmnldr
Member since Oct 2013
38249 posts
Posted on 2/4/20 at 12:47 am to
quote:

Wake up. Your mindset and LSU mindset is why the Dylan Moses’s and Patrick Surtain and Dak Prescott’s go elsewhere. Enjoy your 6 win season coming in 2018. I’ll enjoy watching Quad drafted in the first round probably after beating that arse in a few years. Last post. Not reading or posting on this site again. Not my monkeys not my circus.


No one cares, bud
Posted by TheTexasTiger7
Dallas - Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2018
9387 posts
Posted on 2/4/20 at 12:50 am to
Who the hell are you? Honest question I don’t know what went down here.
This post was edited on 2/4/20 at 2:18 am
Posted by CoachJG45
Member since Oct 2017
639 posts
Posted on 2/4/20 at 12:50 am to
It was brought up in a thread having nothing fi so with me 2 years after the fact. This was in response to that. So someone cared enough to bring it back up...so I cared enough to address it and own it.
Posted by Dlab2013
Pineville, Luzianna
Member since Jun 2013
9219 posts
Posted on 2/4/20 at 12:52 am to
Slammed and quoted you in another thread.....but takes a big man to apologize like you just did.
Posted by thanksjhester
Sonic
Member since Jun 2009
5414 posts
Posted on 2/4/20 at 12:53 am to
its all good. You are not the first to tell a lie here and wont be the last. We are all human and prone to error. Difference is you came forth to make it right.
Posted by CoachJG45
Member since Oct 2017
639 posts
Posted on 2/4/20 at 12:55 am to
Thanks man. Truly appreciate it
Posted by Cadello
Eunice
Member since Dec 2007
47813 posts
Posted on 2/4/20 at 12:56 am to
I think you let your ego cloud your judgment and you acted like a 12 year old girl.
You deserve the shite you got because that was one of the worst displays of childish behavior I’ve witnessed in all my years here.
You basically cursed LSU because you didn’t get your way. Not cool.
Start posting like a fan and not like a know it all, with a “I know more than you” attitude.
I admire you for trying to help these kids, I despise you for the way you did it.
Anyone who comes here and trashes LSU is no better than the opposing fans we hate.

Do better.

Posted by CoachJG45
Member since Oct 2017
639 posts
Posted on 2/4/20 at 12:56 am to
Preciate it. Truly.
Posted by Dudebro2
San Diego
Member since Dec 2011
8967 posts
Posted on 2/4/20 at 1:01 am to
quote:

CoachJG45



Well that couldn’t have been easy to write, but obviously not as difficult as the phone conversation from the person who told you to come clean it sounds like. Maybe I am wrong, maybe you might just have had an epiphany and come clean. Just reading the post sounds like you had a very tough conversation behind it.

Anyway all’s good by me, because whoever says they haven’t made a mistake that they aren’t very proud of, is lying anyway so who cares! We all make mistakes, not too many fess up to them so you are ahead of the ball game in that regard.
Posted by Hester Carries
Member since Sep 2012
22513 posts
Posted on 2/4/20 at 1:54 am to
quote:

Wake up. Your mindset and LSU mindset is why the Dylan Moses’s and Patrick Surtain and Dak Prescott’s go elsewhere. Enjoy your 6 win season coming in 2018. I’ll enjoy watching Quad drafted in the first round probably after beating that arse in a few years. Last post. Not reading or posting on this site again. Not my monkeys not my circus.


Lifelong means your whole life. Here is a period of your life where you are most definitely not an LSU fan. So maybe say “off an on”
Posted by Froman
Baton Rouge
Member since Jun 2007
36244 posts
Posted on 2/4/20 at 3:03 am to
quote:

What I do know is that I lied about the regrettable post I made here


Do you mean the whole “My cousin posted that” nonsense no one believed anyway? What other lies were there? I followed most of that thread, and was really pulling for you and Quad. It was really disappointing to see it end the way it did.
Posted by Tig321
Member since Feb 2015
12 posts
Posted on 2/4/20 at 3:41 am to
I care. He did the mature thing and "manned up"
Posted by wildcat81tiger86
Member since Feb 2014
1002 posts
Posted on 2/4/20 at 3:53 am to
Good for owning up.

Sometimes even as guys our emotions get in the way of sound logic and good judgement.

Enjoy being an LSU fan with the rest of Us.

Geaux Tiger's

We will never all agree with each other or even the coaches etc but are still LSU fans.
Posted by M-Train
Chevy Chase, MD
Member since Dec 2003
248 posts
Posted on 2/4/20 at 5:13 am to
You are apologizing (for who knows what) on a web message board. Do you have the mentality of a second grader?
Posted by LCTFAN
New Iberia
Member since Mar 2013
2741 posts
Posted on 2/4/20 at 6:19 am to
quote:

CoachJG45

Sincere Apology. Long overdue


quote:

For that I do owe you guys an apology


Wow, amazing apology and accepted, I remember the thread and you may get some negative responses but ignore them and move forward

Go Tigers
Posted by CharlesLSU
Member since Jan 2007
31933 posts
Posted on 2/4/20 at 6:30 am to
See, one thing that LSU-loving kids need to understand: LSU is elite. It is not a program looking to draw from the undercurrent of folk-laden support. It sucks for some of these kids that LSU has evolved into being on the mountain where they (LSU) are a nationwide draw.

Just because a mid/lower tiered talent grew up bleeding purple n gold doesn’t mean they get the golden ticket. Rather, they would be fortunate to have the opportunity to develop further on scholarship at a place of higher learning.......and we all welcome them with open arms as FANS who love LSU.

I don’t know your story. I do many past stories. LSU dictates the fabric of its team (for success), not HS coaches, recruiting experts, polarized friends of Little Jonnies’ family.

Sometimes not everyone gets a trophy much less the opportunity to be a Tiger.

Oh, good job apologizing coach.
Posted by CoachJG45
Member since Oct 2017
639 posts
Posted on 2/4/20 at 6:33 am to
quote:

“My cousin posted that”



Yes that part. That’s the only part. Everything I passed along in the thread was true or it was communicated to me and I posted it.
Posted by Stud Bud
MS But travel all over the country
Member since Sep 2015
6958 posts
Posted on 2/4/20 at 6:43 am to
I agree Charles. LSU is not for everyone anymore.

And It takes a big man to admit when he’s wrong.

CoachJ just got overwhelmed with the emotion of helping a player he cares about. And at the end of the day, isn’t that part of what makes them a coach? Caring about a player and wanting them to succeed.

Posted by LordoftheManor
Member since Jul 2006
8371 posts
Posted on 2/4/20 at 6:54 am to
Nice post. Geaux Tigers!

Water under the bridge.
This post was edited on 2/4/20 at 6:55 am
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