re: Expecting my first child in April...

Blessed Friend,

Baptism, I prefer in the first six months. I’m not entirely opposed to baptism as a symbol of forgiveness and confirmation as the Baptists do it. However, grace is always free and comes before us, our faith, and our actions. That is my main argument for infant baptism, as well as Tradition.

Lead by example. If you don’t show them a life of prayer, involvement in a faith community, almsgiving, and service to others, don’t put those expectations on the child. Deepen your relationship with God and your faith community now, for both your sakes.

Don’t drink alcohol or smoke. Use clean, loving language. Don’t withhold love. Be a teacher, a leader, slow to anger, and always ready to forgive. Teach her good manners, including appropriate dress, speech, and table etiquette.

Celebrate each day with your child. Pray with her daily. Eat one meal together. Don’t watch too much TV or spend more than 30 minutes in front of a screen daily.

Show her life is more than an accumulation of goods and preparation for retirement. Teach her to invest her talents. Teach her the importance of teamwork, discipline, and sacrifice. Involve her with an athletic team and have her learn an instrument before school begins. Don’t waste time on college and professional sports.

Love her as Christ loves all of us.

Faith, Hope, and Love,
TulaneLSU