re: What qualities did you look for in your spouse?

You can't look at anything specific. Qualities change. Age, kids, money, family all can change a quality that you see today. Dat arse will not be dat arse after 20 years and 3 kids. Those big tits will be at her waist. Your six pack will get hidden by your tool shed. Your morning wood will stop wooding. So, you can not look for superficial qualities. If you can tolerate each others company, for any length of time, she is probably the right one.