re: Married with 2 kids and Realized she was a lesbian

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My family was being shattered and I couldn’t stop it.

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How was her being a lesbian "shattering her family?"

Sounds like she was the one doing the shattering. Not her sexual orientation.

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I constantly had to remind myself, “You get one life. This is your life and no one else’s.”

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You could use this mantra to rationalize literally any bullshite reason for abandoning your family.

"I wanted to become a famous rock star. I constantly had to remind myself, 'You get one life. This is your life and no one else’s.'"

"I wanted to spend my life gambling and banging prostitutes. I constantly had to remind myself, 'You get one life. This is your life and no one else’s.'"