re: Is divorce now a group decision?

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Pension and 401K from Kraft Foods, where he worked for 20+ yrs prior to meeting his soon-to-be-ex. I'm guessing 401K is in the hundreds of thousands

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If in a community property state, she gets zero of the pension (if all service credits earned prior to marriage) and will get a portion of the 401k's gains/reinvested dividends during the marriage (if any) and any contributions made during marriage (if any). Hes no where near as fricked as you think.