re: What have some of you done to help get over the pain of losing someone?

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to help get over the pain of losing someone?

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That's the thing that so many people don't get. You're not supposed to get over the pain. Wounds leave scabs. Scabs leave scars. That's the way our bodies work. That's the way it's supposed to be.

you don't forget about your scars. You look back at them, and you remember how you got those scars. You have that scar because of how much you cared about that person. you honor their memory by remembering them and acting in a fashion that they would be proud of.