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re: Reasons women lose respect for their husbands (by a woman)

Posted on 8/31/18 at 8:48 am to
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
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Posted on 8/31/18 at 8:48 am to
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Which varies on an hour to hour basis and men rarely know the level required.


Yall need some 5 Love Languages in your life


Just knowing your woman's love language can make things sooo much easier for you.

If you are trying to show her you love her by doing things around the house for her and her love language is physical touch...and you aren't being a little affectionate to her....she is gonna interpret this in her head as her emotional needs aren't being met.
Posted by Displaced
Member since Dec 2011
32762 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 8:50 am to
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Yall need some 5 Love Languages in your life

Bitch please

I'm affection and gifts
My wife is acts and words of affirmation

I'm good at giving affirmation and my afi is acts of service. I work on it daily.
Posted by TigerFanInSouthland
Louisiana
Member since Aug 2012
28065 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 8:51 am to
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If you are trying to show her you love her by doing things around the house for her and her love language is physical touch...and you aren't being a little affectionate to her....she is gonna interpret this in her head as her emotional needs aren't being met.


Why is it the man’s job to innately know what his woman’s made up ‘love language’ is? It would help if the woman would make it known what she wants.

But most just expect their every need met without saying a single word.
This post was edited on 8/31/18 at 8:59 am
Posted by teke184
Zachary, LA
Member since Jan 2007
98959 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 8:59 am to
This works if each side actually knows what the other speaks and they are honest about it.

It sucks when the partner tries to claim they speak 2-3 different love languages and aren’t happy when the wrong one is spoken at the wrong time, especially since a few of them are contradictory.
Posted by ksayetiger
Centenary Gents
Member since Jul 2007
68854 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 9:01 am to
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.and you aren't being a little affectionate to her....she is gonna interpret this in her head as her emotional needs aren't being met.



Then the dumb bitch needs to open her mouth and tell her man what she needs. Men are simple, straight forward creatures. We aint mind readers.
Posted by Pecker
Rocky Top
Member since May 2015
16674 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 9:03 am to
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5 Love Languages in your life


I’ve read that book and taken those tests. It’s silly stuff that sounds nice. Is not unlike the horoscope-like DISC tests that companies sometimes administer to employees.

“He’s not meeting my emotional needs” is a meaningless phrase. Emotional needs change. Your “love language” changes as your moods change and as situations change.

There are general principles that all successful couples adhere to. You don’t need to attempt to track someone’s ever-evolving love language

“My love language is receiving gifts!”

Yeah, well then you have a warped idea of what love is and your expectations of gifts is destructive because you’ll never truly appreciate them as they’re now obligatory.
This post was edited on 8/31/18 at 9:06 am
Posted by PrivatePublic
Member since Nov 2012
17848 posts
Posted on 8/31/18 at 9:22 am to
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Yall need some 5 Love Languages in your life



As if that just solves everything.

My wife's love languages have changed several times over the course of our marriage. I've finally figured out that she just wants them all and her current love languages are whatever I'm falling short in.
Posted by starsandstripes
Georgia
Member since Nov 2017
11897 posts
Posted on 9/1/18 at 2:49 am to
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Yall need some 5 Love Languages in your life


Posted by TJGator1215
FL/TN
Member since Sep 2011
14174 posts
Posted on 9/1/18 at 5:05 am to
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her love language is physical touch...and you aren't being a little affectionate to her....she is gonna interpret this in her head as her emotional needs aren't being met.


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