re: Visiting the graveside of a lost loved one

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My dad died February 20th and I haven’t been since the funeral

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I'm sorry for your loss. People grieve in different ways. My dad's parents died 28 and 30 years ago and I think he has visited their graves twice that I am aware of since then. And, that was only because other family members have recently been buried near them. I know he loved them dearly, but he just doesn't visit their graves. Folks just process grief in different ways. My mom has been the opposite of that since the death of my other grandparents. She visits their graves at least a couple of times a year.