re: Dealing with parents/in laws that try to supersede you with your kids

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Do any of you deal with either parents or in laws that try to override what you tell your kids to do?

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No kids and my wife's parents are deceased. So...no

But for whatever my advice is worth, you need to have a serious conversation with the in-laws because like you said, they ARE undermining your authority. If they can't respect that, they won't see your grandkids (although your wife needs to be on board).