re: Honeymoon ideas

Tahiti is a looong way to go....and not everyone’s cup of tea once you get there. $8-$10k is a huge travel budget by my standards.....a few questions:
—how long?
—what level of amenities or service do you want?
—active outdoors, city/cultural, culinary, relaxation/low activity, or what?
—do you want to brag about your destination or do you want to enjoy it? (Not mutually exclusive, but too many ppl get stuck on the idea of going to a place, or telling others that they’re going to a place, rather than trying to figure out if they will actually enjoy the trip)
—can you split this amount into 2 separate trips over the next year/18 mos? IOW do you want a nice honeymoon now and a nice trip for your anniversary next year? Cause 10k doesn’t have to be blown in one fell swoop.