re: HLN's Ashleigh Banfield thoroughly destroys Aziz Ansari accuser

as detailed as the story was - it glosses quickly over a few key points. So grain of salt here

Assuming it amounts to her being indecisive and generally reluctant and him being persistent and pushy.... he’s a schmuck but not a rapist.

It’s definitely fair to have some discussions both about men seeking enthusiastic consent and women being direct in declining advances — but it also needs to be a discussion about assault vs misconduct vs needing to change culture...