re: Is it possible for any relationship to stay intact after cheating?

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It's the end dude. People try and keep it together and some people do stay together but the relationship is never ever the same. Cannot trust someone, cannot be with them, simple as that IMO

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Maybe I'm just a weirdo. Okay I know I am.

I just don't get why people get caught up in that self-important feeling of betrayal. Like the cheater fricked your whole life up for getting some side sex.
"YOU DONE ME WRONGGG. IT'S OVER"

I'm more in alignment with this kind of reaction.
"oh your dumb arse fricked up. don't do that shite again. Come to me and tell me if you wanna spice shite up with some strap-on and handcuff action."