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re: Doubt this has happened to a TDer before.
Posted on 12/31/17 at 3:01 am to lsuconnman
Posted on 12/31/17 at 3:01 am to lsuconnman
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I’d say F-her! I’ve experienced it from the opposite side. I never knew my father, but when he died, I got a phone call ....and was supposed to care. Sorry, but decades of silence erode one’s interest.
Why post this shite?
The OP is one of the most solid people I know on this site and has no malice in his heart and his wife is likely the same as well if he's any indication.
This post was edited on 12/31/17 at 3:04 am
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Posted on 12/31/17 at 3:07 am to Sentrius
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Why post this shite?
Agreed. Very different scenarios, and a callous response. Adoption is not abandonment when the child is given up for a more suitable upbringing.
Posted on 12/31/17 at 3:17 am to Sentrius
1. Damn you skipped out on the check. That was what struck me the most. Guess I wasn't expecting that with how things were flowing.
2. You could look at donating some money to one of those college savings accounts for the kids.
3. This is a bit abrasive but here's my take on it: wife gave up that child. She has no right to interject now. Think of how that would be received by someone. Not a great position for her to be in, but she has to just let this go. That's just how it goes when you hand over a child for adoption. You trust you're doing it for the right reasons and that the child is better off because of it, and in return you're no longer the parent and no longer in the child's life. Just have to move on, again.
2. You could look at donating some money to one of those college savings accounts for the kids.
3. This is a bit abrasive but here's my take on it: wife gave up that child. She has no right to interject now. Think of how that would be received by someone. Not a great position for her to be in, but she has to just let this go. That's just how it goes when you hand over a child for adoption. You trust you're doing it for the right reasons and that the child is better off because of it, and in return you're no longer the parent and no longer in the child's life. Just have to move on, again.
Posted on 12/31/17 at 10:59 am to Sentrius
quote:Thanks.
The OP is one of the most solid people I know on this site and has no malice in his heart and his wife is likely the same as well if he's any indication
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