re: With porn no one should be in a relationship unless it's real physical attraction

Are there any guys in here whose SO's think that porn is cheating?

I ask because, if my wife (I've never asked her TBH), felt that porn was cheating, would I still watch it? Absolutely I would.

What about jerking off? Does anybody's SO get upset when they find out they jerk off? I honestly have no clue on my wife's feelings on that. If I found out my wife cares about that shite...would I still jerk off? Of course I would.

I find this topic interesting because, we men, have created this thing for ourselves that gives us clout for jerking off (and really, thinking about fricking any given chick) and watching porn, and have molded into a, "well, we need to do this...nothing against you. We're just opening the valve." and there isn't shite that can be said by our SO's. And if they so happen to say anything about them not liking it, we pretty much tell them to, "get over it and get secure."