re: Does anyone else have a lazy wife?

Stop doing the dishes. Someone will want to eat soon enough. The next time you take the trash out, dont bring it back in, but put the trashcan in the middle of the driveway so she has to get out of the car and acknowledge the trashcan. Then at the very least, she brings the trashcan back into the garage. Stop washing her clothes and everybody elses. They are all grown ups, no reason for you to be doing anybodys laundry but your own.