re: Missing LSU Student remains found - Woods between Nicholson and burbank

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I wonder if there were any signs that his family and friends should have picked up on.

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That right there. That "should" is what I took issue with. It's easy to say those left behind should have picked up on something but lots of times the person with the problems is too ashamed to give any signals. It's a very, very sad thing for all involved. It's why those of us left behind, the "victims" if you will, of suicide feel so much guilt. It's because we, too, feel we should've picked up on things but reality is there never were clues in many of these situations. And we've beat ourselves up over it for years.

Thanks for the apology, appreciate it. I know you didn't mean to come across that way. Just felt like I had to say it though.