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re: A guide for men online dating – from a female perspective

Posted on 5/19/17 at 2:54 pm to
Posted by Pecker
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Member since May 2015
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Posted on 5/19/17 at 2:54 pm to
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Honest question. What do you plan to do when your fiance or wife turns 30, and doesn't have the glow?


I added this a little late to the post you quoted.

There's nothing wrong with women in their 30s or 40s. There are thousands of beautiful women in their 30s and 40s. We're just being honest about when women hit their peak physical attractiveness. It's become taboo to state the obvious, with people denying it and completely ignoring the biological aspects of it.


What do you mean, "what do you plan to do with [her]?" I'm in love with her. We have a great relationship and have a lot of respect for each other. We've been together almost 5 years now.

She's 28 and I actually think she looks better than she did when we started dating. She doesn't look as youthful, but her body is better because she kills it in the gym now. People age. It's a natural part of life. I'm not interested in dating or banging 19 year olds or chasing glow. If I wanted that, I'd be single right now.

There's nothing wrong with our honestly discussing the truth when it comes to men/women and physical attractiveness.

Aging and losing physical attractiveness is going to happen. My only problem is when people use aging as an excuse to be unhealthy.
Posted by Mo Jeaux
Member since Aug 2008
59518 posts
Posted on 5/19/17 at 2:58 pm to
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I added this a little late to the post you quoted.

There's nothing wrong with women in their 30s or 40s. There are thousands of beautiful women in their 30s and 40s. We're just being honest about when women hit their peak physical attractiveness. It's become taboo to state the obvious, with people denying it and completely ignoring the biological aspects of it.


What do you mean, "what do you plan to do with [her]?" I'm in love with her. We have a great relationship and have a lot of respect for each other. We've been together almost 5 years now.

She's 28 and I actually think she looks better than she did when we started dating. She doesn't look as youthful, but her body is better because she kills it in the gym now. People age. It's a natural part of life. I'm not interested in dating or banging 19 year olds or chasing glow. If I wanted that, I'd be single right now.

There's nothing wrong with our honestly discussing the truth when it comes to men/women and physical attractiveness.

Aging and losing physical attractiveness is going to happen. My only problem is when people use aging as an excuse to be unhealthy


Women should also be made aware of the wife goggles that husbands get when their wives take care of themselves and generally put effort into the marriage. While those husbands may intuitively understand that their wives may not be as objectively as attractive as when they were younger, the attachment that they have engendered with their husbands make their husbands view them as if they were still close to that optimal level of attractiveness.
Posted by Festus
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Member since Nov 2009
85067 posts
Posted on 5/19/17 at 3:00 pm to
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What do you mean, "what do you plan to do with [her]?"

I meant are you gonna keep her and still be happy, or look for someone younger. Your post answered my question.
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She's 28 and I actually think she looks better than she did when we started dating.

I'm glad to see you agree with me, some women do actually become more attractive as they get older.
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