re: Is your S/O fat? Would you ever tell him/her to get in better shape?

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If you LTR or marry a woman who is thin but then gets fat it's because the woman didn't respect you and didn't fear losing you. She knew she had you ultra invested and committed and wrapped around her finger so she could get away with being lazy and making bad choices. A man should always keep 2 in the kitty to make sure his woman stays in shape.

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I'm 100% on the idea of respect when it comes to keeping yourself attractive in a relationship. She understands that as well.

-She signed up to be with a smart, witty, cool Chad with a great physique and beautiful face
-I signed up to be with a smart, witty, cool Ashley with a beautiful face, small C-cups, a tight body and a round arse.

It would be disrespectful for either of us to just assume that the other person is okay with one of us turning into a landwhale.

I've said this before, but if we broke up today, she'd have a lot of options and get a lot of attention from dudes. I'm ok with that. I would have a lot of options as well. We both understand that, and the threat of mutually assured destruction keeps us both in line, in a lot of ways. If one of us deviates from that, it would be problematic. I'm sure she'd still have feelings for me if I turned into a hamplanet, but it would be entirely disrespectful. It's not what she signed up for. Same goes for her.