re: Accurate Diagrams of Marriage and Divorce in the 21st Century

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The insecurity of men and their mistakes of marrying before the age of 30 come out in these BS threads. Don't rush into having kids either. Take the first two years of marriage and travel and enjoy them. You've got plenty of time to have kids.

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I married at age 22, but our first kid isn't due until June.....6 years to the month after we got married.

All it comes down to is choosing wisely, being honest with each other, and not being in a danged rush to get hitched/have kids. Like you said, they'll happen eventually for most folks if they've built a solid relationship first.

Mine ain't perfect, of course, but I'm the happiest I've ever been since I've been with her, and both of us are committed to doing our part to keep the marriage healthy.