re: After watching Tucker in this recent episode I have a question

I don't know any transgender people, but I do know what they call nowadays an intergender person, or a hermaphrodite, having both a penis and a vagina. I have sympathy for these people because they were born this way and their confusion as to their gender is understandable if you have both sex organs.

I don't know him/her well enough to ask biological questions like which hole does the pee come out of or stuff like that. I do know that he/she can't have kids. He looks like a man but he does have small female breasts. Ive never seen which bathroom he chooses, but I think he would be accepted in either one as he looks like a man but has the small breasts of a woman. No one would ask questions.

When I first met him he identified as a man and then a year after he switched to female with no discernible change in behavior, mannerisms, or demeanor. I have a hard time remembering which pronoun to use when speaking about him/her in his presence, but when I mess up she never gets offended or anything, just ignores it.