re: I need help OT

Your understanding of the cyclical nature of human interaction and women's predisposed natural behavior towards it shows you don't actually understand human interaction or how women think. I collected information for a living I've forgotten more in my sleep about people than you've ever known.

I'm willing to bet any legitimately grown man that doesn't speak like a frat boy reject like you will tell you that women reach out of the blue all the time and it is truly nothing more than reconnecting. Yes they often want to frick but that's not the overwhelming norm. Women value connection and relationship building in a platonic way far more than men.