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re: Question about popping the question

Posted on 11/17/16 at 1:35 pm to
Posted by Geauxdhan08
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Oct 2015
357 posts
Posted on 11/17/16 at 1:35 pm to
Good thought I hadn't thought about the adjustment engagement period and she wants at least a year long engagement.. I've told her about all of my apprehensions, I just think the rhetoric will change once the title becomes Mr. And Mrs.
Posted by BeerMoney
Baton Rouge
Member since Jul 2012
8432 posts
Posted on 11/17/16 at 1:40 pm to
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Good thought I hadn't thought about the adjustment engagement period and she wants at least a year long engagement.. I've told her about all of my apprehensions, I just think the rhetoric will change once the title becomes Mr. And Mrs.



When you get engaged they tell all their friends and that period goes out the window. They're over the engagement almost instantly and in instant wedding planning mode which is chaos and horse shite. You'll wish you were dead for that year. There is no engagement period. You're kidding yourself. Take the blue pill and move in to a one bedroom with a good life.
Posted by J Murdah
Member since Jun 2008
39805 posts
Posted on 11/17/16 at 2:04 pm to
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Good thought I hadn't thought about the adjustment engagement period and she wants at least a year long engagement.. I've told her about all of my apprehensions, I just think the rhetoric will change once the title becomes Mr. And Mrs.
You have to do what is best for you. If she's the one put a ring on it. The wedding and engagement is all about yall. The engagement can last until you are financially, and emotionally ready. You don't have to do what everyone else does or tells you is standard.
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
111237 posts
Posted on 11/17/16 at 3:02 pm to
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I just think the rhetoric will change once the title becomes Mr. And Mrs.
5 years together and you don't trust her.

Considering cutting bait at this point is probably where you want to invest your thoughts instead of marriage based on the limited info you've given us IMO.
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