re: Question about popping the question

At your ages, I wouldnt say you are too young to marry or too old to need to hurry. However, the reasons you state for not wanting to get married don't seem like ones that will change if you wait another year or two or five. To me the right thing to do is to have a very straight-forward conversation with your gf about what your concerns are about marriage: you are who you are and you're not going to change just because you become husband/wife. Then go from there.