re: This is what happens when kids are given participation trophies

I tell family members quite regularly that though I am very successful, I've still lost more than I have won. Kids need to learn to lose.

Kids also need to realize they're special to their parents, but need to assume the outside world doesn't give a shite about them or their opinion in most cases.

Come and interview with me and bring the attitude of "always right" or "I'm special cause Mommy says so" and you'll hit the door. Nut up and take responsibility for yourself and your actions and work for something.