re: Why do so many pronounce it "ate-touffe"?

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t's a French word. Proper spelling is étouffée. The accent above the two e's requires an "ay" pronunciation. That's pretty much it.

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There you go. Ay too Fay is correct. Et too Fay is incorrect. That said, the long "a" in French is pronounced slightly differently than in the US.