re: How do I tell my wife that I don't like her gumbo?

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If you cant talk about something being wrong as small as a gumbo, what happens when bigger problems come up?

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You treat it like a bigger problem?

Is the argument that every "problem" should be handled exactly the same, whether big or small? Seems like you'd be complaining nonstop in all facets of life, from the home to the work place.