re: How should I handle this situation figuring out my Dad used my birth money?

I mean I have a relationship with my dad where I could ask him what he did with the money I gave him and he would tell me... I was actually surprised to see that my parents had kept all the money given to me as presents and what not and they "gave me back" the account when I graduated college as a gift of sorts. Maybe your dad has done something similar and is just waiting for you to quit being a dumbass.