re: Explain to me what "Transgender" actually means?

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Transgender: Born male but identify more as a female (male who wears makeup, girl clothes, etc.)

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The part in parenthesis is what confuses me so much about this stuff. They seem to be against gender norms, but then generalize being a female as wearing dresses, wearing makeup, etc. Hasn't there been a movement to remove labels on toys as "girl" toys and "boy" toys? If there were 2 options for someone;

1. Born a man, but identify as a female by wearing makeup.
2. Born a man, identify as male, but enjoy wearing "feminine" attire

The second one is way less confusing and doesn't involve a litany of made up identities.