re: Having a birthday party every year for a dead baby

People that haven't gone through it don't understand. They can't. They can't grasp the absolute hell it is.


And we all grieve in different ways. Cope In different ways.



It leaves a hole in your soul. A hole that will never be filled. And grass may grow over that hole, you may learn to step around it, to avoid it, but still sometimes you fall in that hole and it is as deep and dark as the date was formed.