re: Having a birthday party every year for a dead baby

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forcing your friends and family to buy shite for someone not around and have the momma act like a great person for donating everyone else's purchases?

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She doesn't appear to be forcing anyone to buy gifts. You simply could choose not to attend. Let the person grieve in her own way I say. I could not imagine losing a child. I probably wouldn't grieve in this way, but who am I to judge?