re: The results are in, the OT never fails and is all knowing

I agree w everyone here. I sympathize w OP bc it is hard to find someone you are "into" enough for a relationship.

That being said, if you don't learn from a relationship you're doomed to repeat same mistakes. You handled it correctly, but it is likely too late. She is in full blown "checking out her options" mode and will likely move on when she finds another/better option.

That is, if she hasn't already.
My advice is to start looking for a new girl. Finding one before this one leaves will soften the blow. Women are masterful at this technique. That's why they are a complete disaster if they are broken up with when they don't want to.

All women have some crazy in them, but as a man it's your job to mitigate it and give them boundaries. It's not as if they consciously test the boundaries, they just do it and learn what's acceptable within the relationship.

It's your job as a man to figure out what you'll be willing to tolerate and lay down your boundaries as soon as they show up in the relationship. That way it works out better for the both of you early on as you can each see if you can tolerate the other's idiosyncrasies.

Learn from this one.

TLDR: start finding another girl now, establish crazy limit early in relationship, profit