re: Shift workers.....dealing with family and missing holidays cause you are working

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When I relayed that info to her instead of her replying that she was sorry to hear that I coudln't come she was asking "so what time would you be able to come over"

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She seems like the type who has never had to work.

My mother and law used to complain that I didn't treat her like family...so I did. She veey quickly understood I was actually trying to be polite.

If your husband won't stand up for you, I would ask him wtf more than her.