re: Rental Property Question- own an upstairs unit in a fourplex

With folks having developmental delay, the ultimate goal is independent living. That is why he's living on his own.

And I get your point, but lets not assume that the guy is just lusting after the girl. He may very well be, but the hugs and gifts are more a sign of not understanding acceptable social boundaries. But you're absolutely right, his ignorance to this could indeed get him hurt by people who misunderstand his motives, which is why you're doing him no favors by not saying anything.

You've got a great opportunity to be an advocate here. Your tenant, the disabled tenant, the other tenants in the units...We're all just trying to be happy in the time we spend here before we get to our ultimate destination.

I think this is the right way to handle it from both a financial and human perspective. Good luck man.