re: Shopping for engagement rings, educate me

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Prenup

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Being considered. My family wants to protect our land, her family wants to protect their wealth

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Counseling

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We undoubtedly will do this through a program at our church.

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Credit checks

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My credit is mediocre, but with zero debt. Hers is stellar.

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Banking statements

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seperate checking with a joint account for paying bills, joint savings, and seperate retirement accounts

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Debts

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zero

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Parenting types

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In agreement on most things. Still debating public vs private schools, but that has more to do with where we live than anything. The other disagreement is regarding whether or not spanking should be allowed. I am pro spanking for particularly heinous offenses (kind of a punishment of last resort), she is anti on all counts. Both agree on everything else with parenting.

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did she or you come from broken family?

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No