re: I need some honest relationship advice

You two had a set of rules that you had agreed to. Geography forced her to change the rules. She is living by the new rules and you are living by the old.

You need to date other people too. You do not have to dump her or treat her badly. She does not tell you about all of her dates and you should not tell her about all of yours. Full disclosure on either of your parts would cause hurt feelings.

I guess she is your high school GF and first, and only, sexual partner. This is why your feelings are getting hurt. Date more. You will be surprised how good life is with a little variety.

Prepare yourself to find that a lot of the women you will start dating are better in bed, mind, body and spirit than your current GF. Your limited access to Vitamin P is skewing your vision.

In the meantime, see her and talk to her whenever convenient. Just don't be so sold on the idea of growing old with her. You are 19. Things have a way of working themselves out if you take the proper steps.

School is priority. Your life, with whoever you choose to spend it, will be affected by your education now.

Have fun.