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Quotes like this make you sound jealous and insecure. It's not even about this guy in particular being in your head, it's about the fact that you're letting a guy get in your head, period. If you're so much better, why do you have to reinforce that to yourself by posting on the OT at 4:20 in the morning? It sounds to me like you're not convinced you're better. You're also focusing on the wrong shite - making money is good, making more money is better, but money doesn't make you a more charismatic person, so trying to win a battle of charisma with your paycheck isn't gonna do you shite. Just stop worrying about this dude, if he were a threat to take your girl then your girl would be with him already instead of you.

Really good stuff, and I completely agree. I think she already senses that he's in my head and that I don't like him from my body language. I agree with you that I need to enhance my behavior around him, and that's the point of this thread - to seek ideas how.

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Posted by SabiDojo

Open to any suggestions.

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Posted on 11/24/14 at 4:33 am to SirWinston

I'm afraid to know the answer, but I'm going to ask anyway. What is this subject your gf is so passionate about?

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Posted by lsutothetop

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Posted on 11/24/14 at 4:36 am to SirWinston

The first and only enhancement you need to make is to stop worrying about enhancements to make

You talked in your OP about doing alpha shite, you know what alphas do in these situations? They don't let themselves get psyched out by their girlfriend's guy friend. If the guy friend is annoying when everyone's hanging out, they just talk to their girlfriends instead and keep the girl's attention focused on them instead of the guy - and if the girl blows them off then like I said, they bring it up afterwards and handle the problem responsibly, like an adult.

Just be you and stop worrying yourself with this guy. Your girlfriend is dating you, not him. There's a reason for that; act like it.