re: Anyone know people who choose to be miserable?

Ok, this is my ex girlfriend's little brother. I stayed with her for a year longer than I wanted to because I couldn't break up with her while her little brother was dying of cancer and then died

I was up close and personal with everyone in the family. The mom appreciated me for listening to her tell the story of his death over and over. She told me that

I'm sorry, but at some point you decide that you have to continue living. I've talked to my aunt about it and my cousins. They hurt just as badly. But they keep living. They find the good in life today that they can

But my ex's mom refuses to move on at all. frick all of you judgers. But it's par for the course with OTers. Think the worst possible about what's posted as you can

I've talked to the mom recently about how I can't imagine what it's like to lose a son. And my son and her son were best friends. So I was hit by it from all angles

I just answered the op