re: Is The Word "Retarded" Offensive?

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Like, when we go someplace and he's in his wheelchair full grown adults walk up to me and ask "what's wrong with him?" In front of him.

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People just don't think. I treat everyone in an age appropriate manner, until it is obvious that is the inappropriate approach. Courtesy to someone with mobility issues should not trump common sense. If the kid is wearing a helmet and/or is obviously afflicted with Downs or other issue, I might lean towards dealing with the caretaker, in a discreet manner. Otherwise, they get the greeting of the day and appropriate courtesy/mobility assistance - just as I would offer any other human being.

Maybe it was just the way I was raised...