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you need to make it very clear she can either get in counseling because she's damaging your child's emotional security, or you're gone. That's bull shite. A child's emotions are tied to how secure they feel. And she is destroying that.

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This and, if she goes, you better hope that she actually gives it a shot or it'll probably end up a waste of time(for her, not you).

If counseling doesn't work, get the divorce and pray that she doesn't make your life hell as an ex-wife/mother of your child.

ETA:

Ah frick, I missed the "on the way" comment. Wowyhi is right. You do need counseling but there's going to be some empathizing and understanding from you while she's pregnant. Not saying you're an a-hole and starting fights, but pregnant women do have a hard time remaining sane and rational at times. It's science.