re: Making hotel reservations with a significant other...when is too soon?

It's not a typo. I did indeed mean 'hostel' (like the Eli Roth film). I was a surprised as the rest of y'all to realize that there are indeed hostels in America. She's still in college so she doesn't make that much money and I usually don't get hung up on material things so the hostel itself isn't all that disappointing. Also, she booked a private room with a private bath so thankfully we won't be shacking up with any strangers.

I'll admit that I am usually terrible about overthinking things. People have been telling me that my entire life.

In regards to the comment made about me subconsciously already deciding to break up with her, I'll admit that it has crossed my mind on a few occasions. She and I are just very different in many respects.

She likes to live life moment to moment and indulge in various pleasures(e.g. eating fastfood/sweets, drinking regularly, traveling, etc.). Meanwhile, I'm much more calculated and conservative and I'm extremely health-conscious. She's not all that active and does not obssess over her body image like most females. That can be good in some respects but she is also a little overweight and seems pretty content with how she looks.

She has been very supportive of my fitness-oriented, healthy-eating lifestyle and not once has she complained about it. However, there is a part of me that thinks she would prefer someone that is a little more like herself when it comes to trying new things and doing whatever.

The reason why I have stayed with her this long is because I can tell that she truly does care about me and she is a geuinely selfless person. She's also a hell of a cook (from what her friends and my family say), highly intelligent, and is phenominal between the sheets.